See exactly what arrives at the mailbox
Every month, a beautiful letter arrives for her, written in a warm, peer-to-peer style voice about the things she may be going through right now. This isn't a newsletter, it isn't homework, but a letter that feels like it came from someone who genuinely gets her.
Why a Letter Could Change Things
Below is a sample letter of what your daughter could receive. Every letter is written in a relatable, encouraging girl-to-girl voice. They are real topics that she may experience, exposing some very real feelings. She can gain real tools and real words to help her as she moves through these tender tween years. It's a quiet, powerful gift that lasts long after the moment passes.
— Sample Letter —
This month: Comparison & Self-Worth
Hey there, friend!
Can I tell you something I wish someone had told me when I was younger?
You are not behind. Not in your body. Not in your friendships. Not in figuring out who you are. There is no schedule that you are supposed to be on, and whoever made you feel like there was one, well, they were wrong!
Comparing yourself to someone else is like reading two different books. While they may be on Chapter 12 in their book, you are on Chapter 4 in yours... completely different, right!
I know how it feels to look around and think everyone else has it figured out. That everyone else is more, more confident, more comfortable, more everything. But here is what is actually true: they are looking at you and thinking the same thing!
This month, will you try something with me? Every time we catch ourselves comparing, let us ask ourselves this one question: What is one thing I know about myself right now that has nothing to do with anyone else? Because I know there are things about each of us that belong only to us.
How I laugh, or the way we each think, things that we each care about, places we each like to go, or the way you wrinkle your nose when you laugh. Those things cannot be compared. Those are the things that make each of us who we really are. Do not be afraid to be the real you, because we are both amazing girls!
You are not failing because someone else seems to be ahead. You are not behind. You are still growing. You are still becoming. You are exactly where you are supposed to be. You do not have to rush to become someone else. You are allowed to become you.
I am so glad you are in this club with me!
Cheering you on!
Nadia ♡
P.S. When you are feeling behind, remember the amazing things that make you, you!
What makes this letter and club different.
Each month the letters address a different topic that don't sound like a parent or teacher lecture, they sound like a girl, just like her.
Every letter includes something she can actually do, a way to reframe something that has been upsetting to her. Her feeling are validated and she has tools she can use the next time something like this comes up.
Speaking of tools..., there are also tools for you too. Script cards to help you find the words when the time is right.
The letters open a door, you walk through them together, on her timeline, at her pace, with no pressure.
This is what you have been waiting for, a way to help you tween daughter manage her feelings and find the words she needs to express them. A way to keep communication flowing during these tender years.
She Deserves a Whole Community in Her Corner
Inside The Confident Tween Letter Club, your daughter will find the tools, connection, and guidance to grow into the strong, kind, confident young woman you already see in her.
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